Teen Counseling Privacy in Washington State: A Guide for Parents and Teens
When teens feel safe and respected, it’s easier to share what’s on their mind.
Going to counseling can feel scary, but it’s also a brave way to get support while growing up. One thing that often confuses teens and their parents is who can see what’s shared in therapy. Washington State has laws to help teens feel safe and supported. Here’s the important information:
Privacy Rights for Teens in Counseling
Teens in Washington State have certain legal rights when it comes to mental health care:
1. Teens Can Say Yes to Counseling on Their Own
If you are 13 or older, you can start counseling without needing your parents’ permission.
This means you can get help privately if you want.
2. What Happens in Sessions Stays Private
What you share with your counselor is confidential, meaning it isn’t shared with anyone—including your parents—unless you agree.
There are some exceptions where the counselor must share information (explained below).
3. Your Mental Health Records Belong to You
If you’re 13 or older, you control who sees your counseling records. Parents cannot see them unless you give written permission.
When Confidentiality Doesn’t Apply
There are some times counselors must break confidentiality:
Harm to Yourself or Others: If a counselor thinks you might hurt yourself or someone else, they must act to keep everyone safe, which could include contacting your parents or authorities.
Abuse or Neglect: Counselors are required by law to report any suspected abuse or neglect.
Court Orders: In rare situations, a judge can require counseling records to be shared.
What This Means for Parents
It can be hard for parents not to know everything their teen talks about in counseling. But respecting privacy helps teens trust their counselor and feel safe to share. Parents can still help by:
Being Available: Let your teen know you’re there to support them without pressuring them to share session details.
Family Counseling: Sometimes family sessions are helpful to talk together while keeping individual privacy.
Learning About Counseling: Understand how therapy works and work with your teen and counselor to support them.
What This Means for Teens
Knowing your sessions are private can help you open up and work through challenges. But it’s also important to know the limits of confidentiality so you’re prepared if your counselor needs to act for safety reasons.
In Summary
Privacy laws help make counseling a safe space for teens while allowing parents to support their children. Understanding these boundaries builds trust and confidence in therapy for everyone.
If you have questions about privacy or counseling, you can reach out to your therapist. Together, teens, parents, and counselors can work toward better support and understanding.
Want to learn more about counseling for your teen? Contact me to request a free online consultation.
